I’ve been in a relationship for just over four years now with my Man, pretty much since I left my parent’s home with only a brief sojourn at another guy’s flat in between. He is my best friend in the whole world and the only person I have ever considered my family, we’ve been through a lot together, some of it my doing and some of it his. I think back and I wonder how we have managed to stay with one another through the myriad of hurts and how now moving forwards and exploring polyamoury, my sexuality and his repressions we’ll stay together in the future. He is, without a doubt, the most important person in my life *but* he lacks the desire for control, ownership .. doesn’t like to see me humiliated, degraded or treated unfairly.
Those are the things my head tells me are missing.
Attenshun 